How do you feel when you don’t make the team?
What will you do when you don’t get the job?
When you’re not accepted by a person?
How will you handle rejection?
It’s been said that rejection is the number one fear among human beings.
If you are adventurous, bold and courageous then it’s almost inevitable that you will experience rejection.
The reason for this is you are not willing to only accept your status quo. You’re not willing to wait in line for the next handout or stay within your given boundaries.
You want to experience more.
But the desire to experience more also comes with the risk of rejection.
Rejection can be difficult because it can leave you feeling as though there is something defective about you.
But there isn’t.
Which I agree is easier said than done, especially when you’re in the moment.
Acknowledge your feelings when you are rejected because that is an integral part of the human experience. But then learn to move on.
The more you practice moving forward the better you’ll get at handling rejection because you’ll begin to learn that rejection is not the end of the world.
And in some cases when you look back you’ll be happy that you were rejected.
You can actually build your tolerance for rejection by asking for things you really don’t need or want just so that you can get used to it.
You’ll soon come to realize that rejection can be an opportunity for self-improvement in many aspects of your life.
So don’t live in the shadows. Go out, get rejected and see what you can learn.
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