What is Bernoulli’s Principle?

If you know, then pat yourself on your back because only a few people can remember the lesson from their high school science classes.

Bernoulli’s Principle states that “For any airfoil generating lift, there must be a pressure imbalance, i.e. lower average air pressure on the top than on the bottom. Bernoulli’s principle states that this pressure difference must be accompanied by a speed difference.”

Isn’t that amazing?

Just kidding!

Let me simplify.

Air must pass over the top of an airplane’s airfoil or wing faster than the bottom of the wing to create lift and keep it afloat.

That’s right. Air!

The job of a propeller or jet engine is to move the aircraft forward in such a way that the Bernoulli Principle can work. But it’s all based on air.

When was the last time you saw air?

You know it’s all around you because, hopefully, you’re breathing it right now.

So here we are as a collective species basing our entire existence on something we take for granted yet cannot hear, see, or touch unless under certain controlled circumstances.

That’s a lot of faith.

What if you could use that same faith to propel yourself forward through life, knowing that certain principles are working for you, too?

What if there’s also a version of the Bernoulli Principle for humans?

It might exist, but you won’t find it unless you have faith, and not necessarily faith in a religious context, although that might and does work for some people. But faith that there are indeed other forces beyond your capacity to understand that are just waiting to be activated by you.

So, the next time you see an airplane, remember that its entire premise is based on the invisible and visible working together—and this applies to your life, too.

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What is the only thing you can really control?

It’s not people.

It’s not outcomes.

And most of the time, it’s not even yourself.

The only thing you can control if you pay attention, is your thought for a moment. I was tempted to say thoughts but realized that thoughts are like an infinite chain of falling dominoes where one leads to another and another until they are consciously interrupted.

If you pay attention, your extent of control is to the thought you’re having right now as you read this. And, in this split second, you must decide how you’ll react to it because if you don’t, your brain will go into auto-pilot and find a new or previous thought to fill the gap so you don’t have to expend any additional energy.

Your brain is an expert at filling thoughts and creating thought patterns for you because it saves you time and energy, and your brain loves conserving energy.

Stop reading for a moment. Ask yourself what thoughts are you having right now.

I’ll wait.

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Were you able to stop reading and focus on your thoughts?

If you did, then you experienced control for a moment.

The interesting thing about being able to control your thoughts for a few moments is that it helps you re-write old thinking patterns, which can ultimately change the direction of your life.

So, if you find yourself struggling to change a behavior or habit or if you think you’d like to change how you react to certain situations, then begin to practice taking control of your thoughts, even if it’s just for a moment.

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Who’s going to be the lucky winner today?

Who will be the one person you’re going to shower with kindness and affection today?

Who will be the one person you will make feel extra special today?

Who’s going to be the one lucky person in your life today?

Will it be a co-worker, family member, friend, or complete stranger?

It’s okay if you don’t know yet. You still have time to choose someone. But when you do, don’t tell them. Just be super nice to them.

If they know you and are surprised by your affection and kindness, then I guess you’ve learned something about your relationship with them.

If they’re a stranger, they’ll think you’re like this all the time, and maybe you’ll increase their faith in humanity.

I know you’re busy and, like most people, have a lot going on, but taking a few moments out of your day to make another person feel special can go a long way for them and you.

You never know when one act of kindness could change the trajectory of another person’s life.

So pick a winner you’re going to make feel special today, and who knows, someone might be choosing you to be the lucky winner of their affection and kindness, too.

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Do you believe it’s your duty or responsibility to make someone else happy?

If you don’t, you might be labeled as a sociopath or someone with a lack of conscience. However, you’ll also experience a sense of freedom that most people will never know. This freedom allows you to live your life on your terms, unburdened by the weight of others’ emotions.

However, if you do believe it’s your responsibility, then you’re going to have to tread a very slippery slope. You’ll know when you start down this slope because if you pay attention, you’ll begin to notice their moods changing, sometimes erratically, in accordance with your behavior.

Taking responsibility for another person’s happiness can be a huge burden because, eventually, your life will be driven by how they feel and not by what you want.

This is not to say that you should start indulging in sociopathic behavior, but you should not position yourself as the single provider of a person’s happiness.

This principle applies to you as well. By being self-aware and understanding your own emotional needs, you can avoid the trap of relying on others for your happiness.

If you rely on someone else to make you feel happy, you are burdening them and abdicating responsibility for your own feelings. You are also leaving yourself vulnerable to their behavior and whims.

Managing or mastering one’s emotional state is a difficult task in itself and can take a lifetime of effort and practice. Ultimately, you’ll learn that only you can really make yourself happy, and you can only hope that others will learn that lesson for themselves, too.

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Would you like to hear people say these things about you?

You’re caring.

You’re capable

You’re confident.

You’re kind.

You’re lovable.

You’re smart.

You’re thoughtful.

Do you think these things about yourself?

Scratch that.

Do you believe these things about yourself?

You see, how you view yourself will be amplified and then communicated within every interaction you have. Your view of yourself will show up in your actions, body language, and words when speaking to people.

Focusing on behaving and building the character traits you want to be known for is much easier than convincing others, and once you begin to act in alignment with how you feel about yourself, others will also start to see you that way.

Your thoughts about yourself are your keys to how others perceive you and what they’ll say about you. And although your identity shouldn’t depend on what people say and think about you, navigating socially is easier when people view you positively.

So begin to believe in yourself and what you want others to believe about you, and you’ll find that over time, people will indeed see you and how you think of yourself.

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Are you familiar with the questions, for what, and for whom?

In business, it’s a common way to describe what your product or service is used for and who your customer or user will be.

You can also use the same questions as a useful tool in life outside of business.

When you look at your daily activities, you can ask yourself what you are doing them for and for whom.

It’s an excellent way to track why you do what you do.

In business, if you can’t continue to answer these questions, you eventually go out of business because you lose sight of the bigger picture.

In life, if you don’t have an answer to these questions, then you might begin to feel out of control and perhaps even a little lost.

You can almost consider these questions to be a personal compass that you can use to guide you through life. They can also provide you with some balance because if you find that everything is you do is only for you, then you have the opportunity to course correct if you choose to.

Take some time to think through and answer the questions for what and for whom. Because the more time you spend not knowing for what and for whom, the less time you’ll have to make course corrections and get your life back on track.

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How do you respond when you’re asked, ‘How are you?’

Great.

Good.

Okay.

Or

Not so good.

Struggling.

Having a hard day.

Current culture tends to reward positive responses, and the media has shaped people’s minds to think that you should always be happy and feel great, and if you’re not, then something must be wrong with you.

So, how are you supposed to respond when you’re not having a good day?

It can be challenging and depends on who you want to share your struggles with. For some, admitting to struggles is a sign of weakness, so they choose to live behind a thin veneer of pretense. The truth is that everyone has hard days and challenges they are dealing with. That’s just part of the human condition.

Answering the ‘How are you?’ question can also be a little tricky because you have to gauge the person asking you the question. Are they asking just to be polite, or do they really care and want to know?

If you feel they’re just asking to be polite, then the choice is yours. But if you think they really care, then if you’re having a down day, venture to share the truth.

Allowing yourself the freedom to express how you really feel can be difficult because there is a fear that you’ll be judged, but keep in mind that you’ll be judged either way. Everyone knows that no one is always great, so when you have the opportunity and safety to share how you really feel, then do so. You might just give someone else a safe place to share how they really feel, too.

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What is your self-care routine?

Do you have one, or are you just flying by the seat of your pants, hoping that your body and mind will keep up with you?

Self-care doesn’t mean spending a lot of time or money on yourself. It means devoting intentional time to rest and recuperation.

It means taking a few minutes every day to invest in your body and mind.

It means putting yourself first.

Self-care is important because it reminds you that you are important too.  And the feeling that you are important increases your self-worth which in turn directly affects how you show up for others.

Self-care is not about de-prioritizing other responsibilities. It’s about adding yourself to your list of responsibilities.

Your self-care routine could be as simple as taking a daily walk, spending a few minutes reading, or even a short meditation session. It could be something that says, ‘This is my time, and I’m going to spend it on me because I’m important too.’

So, get in the habit of carving out time for self-care. If you feel any guilt about taking time for yourself, as some people do, try to convince yourself that you’re doing it because it’ll make other people happier to be around you. In essence, you’re doing it for them, not you.

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What’s obvious to you?

When did it become obvious?

Is it obvious to everyone?

And, is it really obvious or only obvious to some?

Let’s look at a simple example.

When did it become obvious to you that water is wet?

Follow my thinking here.

You didn’t realize that water was wet until someone told you it was. You knew that if you touched water, you’d experience something, but you didn’t have a name for that experience or feeling until someone said something along the lines of if you do that, you’ll get wet. And you probably didn’t question the person who told you water is wet because there was some form of authority or power in your relationship with them.

But how about now? Are you still relying on what others tell you that should be obvious?

Obvious can be used as a limiting tool if you let it. You might think of it as an imaginary line in the sand that says to you, of course, you should know this, so don’t question it because no one else does.

When you find yourself saying or thinking something is obvious, question it for a moment, especially if you’ve never really encountered the situation before and are relying solely on the word of another. And refrain from telling others what should be obvious to them because what’s obvious to you is the sum of your unique life experiences, not theirs.

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What do you do when things don’t go as planned?

Do you panic?

Do you complain?

Do you give up?

Or do you buckle down and make a new plan?

Hardly ever have you heard of any personal or professional endeavor executed precisely as planned. In fact, more often than not, you’ll hear people say they had to correct course, improvise, or, in extreme situations, throw out the plan and create a new one.

Probably the only time you’ll experience or hear things going exactly as planned is on a production line where machines have been calibrated as tightly as possible and seldom involve human interaction.

Planning provides you with an estimation and rough roadmap that might help you achieve your goals, but planning doesn’t guarantee success.

Since things rarely go as planned, it doesn’t mean that planning is a waste of time. Planning allows you to think out loud. It enables you to think through and account for all the possible known impediments and perhaps even imagine some unknowns.

The experience of things not going as planned is not unique to you. So when things don’t go as planned, and you feel like giving up, hug yourself, say a few encouraging words, and then put your pen to paper and create a new plan.

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Have you ever heard of Slick Willie Sutton?

If yes, then good for you, but if you haven’t, no need to worry because I’m about to tell you who he was.

Slick Willie Sutton, aka Willie Sutton, was a bank robber who committed most of his crimes in the early 1900s.

So, what does a bank robber have to do with you?

Well, I’m glad you asked.

One day, a reporter asked Slick Willie why he robbed banks, and rumor has it that he replied, “Because that’s where the money is.”

Read that last line again.

That makes sense, right?

He went to where he would find what he was looking for because he had asked the right questions.

What are you looking for? And are you asking the right questions and searching in the right places for the answers?

Or are you practicing the Streetlight effect?

What is the Streetlight effect?

Here you go.

The Streetlight effect

A policeman sees a drunk man searching for something under a streetlight and asks what the drunk has lost. He says he lost his keys and they both look under the streetlight together. After a few minutes the policeman asks if he is sure he lost them here, and the drunk replies, no, and that he lost them in the park. The policeman asks why he is searching here, and the drunk replies, “this is where the light is”

While this is an amusing story, it drives home the point about looking in the right place and not where it’s easiest.

So when you’re out looking for solutions to problems or challenges, make sure you’re more like Slick Willie, asking the right questions, and less like the drunk who lost his keys.

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What if the way you think about another person were actually thoughts that redirected back to you?

Just like a well-thrown boomerang, your launched thought is now circling right back towards you.

If you believe that we’re all connected and originate from the same source, then technically, this is true.

Whenever you think negatively or positively about someone else, you’re thinking the same thing about yourself.

This doesn’t mean you can’t or shouldn’t feel emotions when people behave a certain way because emotions are part of the human experience and add color to your life. What I’m talking about is more along the lines of conscious thinking.

When you’re going through your day and thinking about people, what do you say about them in your mind?

You know, when you’re in that moment when you conjure up a name in your mind, and you say they are…-that’s the instant.

That’s your opportunity right there.

That’s the moment when whatever you’re about to say about them – you’re about to say about yourself?

Is it possible or realistic to only have good thoughts about other people?

I can’t answer that for you.

But why not give it a try?

Ultimately, you can consider it a selfish act because those good thoughts are boomeranging back to you.

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How often do you argue with yourself?

If it’s never, then perhaps you should think about doing so.

And I don’t mean argue with yourself out loud because you might run the risk of being locked up.

What I’m talking about is getting in the habit of opposing one of your beliefs, ideas, or thoughts.

Taking the opposite side can give you a glimpse into why others don’t agree with you or see the world the way you do. It can also help you validate ideas more effectively.

In business, there is a concept of pre-mortem, which is very helpful for developing or inspiring new ideas. The objective of the pre-mortem is to explore reasons why a business might fail. The pre-mortem shines a light on potential challenges and hurdles and develops preparedness to address issues should they arise.

There is also a concept of red teaming. Red teaming is similar to a pre-mortem, except, in this case, a team of individuals takes an adversarial stance against an organization to expose vulnerabilities.

You can use either one of these tactics on your own beliefs and ideas.

Being open to being wrong is one of the keys to personal growth. The fact is, you will never have all the correct answers, and when you learn to accept this, your mind will be open to new ideas and options.

So, learn to argue against yourself. It will help you defend what you genuinely believe and enable you to discard ideas that are holding you back. 

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Which one of these are you going to choose to believe?

Everything you worry about comes true.

Or.

Nothing you worry about comes true.

The first one is the rock. It offers you anxiety, stress, and tension.

The second one can be your soft place. It offers you comfort, relief, and solace.

These might not look like options you have, but they are.

Your default state is probably the first choice because that’s where most are programmed to live, but you can choose to reprogram yourself.

Some might say that choice number two is too Pollyanna-ish for them. They might be accurate, but the act of worrying doesn’t actually solve any problems either.

Not worrying is not the same as not acting or not preparing. In fact, it could be considered quite the opposite. If it helps you, write down the things you’re worried about, not so you can focus on them but to get them out of your head.

Carrying around constant anxiety about things that might never occur will eventually become exhausting, and it will take a toll on you and those around you.

So it’s up to you to make a choice between the rock and the soft place.

Neither is right or wrong, but one of them will allow you to enjoy the moments in your life a little more.

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Do you know what cartography is?

It’s the science or practice of drawing maps.

The famous explorers Lewis and Clark drew some of the earliest maps of the United States. In 1804, President Thomas Jefferson commissioned them to map the newly acquired western half of the North American continent.

How useful do you think those maps would be today?

There might be a handful of landmarks, such as rivers or perhaps a large mountain range, that still exist, but the landscape would look totally different for the most part.

Maps must be continuously updated, especially in rapidly changing environments. Even a map that is only a few years old can be outdated.

What about maps that seem to misrepresent?

The most popular world map used today is the Mercator map. The way this map is presented leads you to believe that the sizes of Europe and North America are more extensive than they are, and “visually speaking, Canada and Russia appear to take up approximately 25% of the Earth’s landmass when in reality they occupy a mere 5%.”

What if the map you’re using to guide your life is outdated or, even worse, misrepresents the truth?

What if you have unquestioningly adopted practices and patterns of thinking without updating them for the environment and time you’re living in?

Learn to question the maps you’ve been given and taught. Don’t fall for the ‘it’s always been this way.’ And remember, even when you have an up-to-date map, it only provides you with the layout of the land. It doesn’t show you all the impediments you might encounter on your own personal journey, and it doesn’t teach you how to handle them. To do that, you’ll have to create your own map. 

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What are the first words you say every morning?

Do you welcome the day with joy?

Do you express gratitude for being awake?

Do you tell someone you love them?

Or.

Do you mutter and grumble about having to wake up?

Or.

Do you ignore the first words you use to start your day?

Starting your day by expressing gratitude and love for yourself and others can set the tone for your entire day.

Your words are not a panacea and don’t make challenges and problems disappear but serve as a reminder that, just for that moment, all is okay.

It takes less than a minute to set your day or the day of someone you love on a positive course, so why not make the effort to do so?

If saying positive words out loud feels a little awkward at first then you can start by thinking of them aloud in your head, or even just whispering them, so only you can hear them.

The best part of starting your day with words of gratitude and love for yourself and others is that it sets your frame for how you see yourself and the person you’re thinking of.

Start your day tomorrow with beautiful, positive words for yourself and others. Practice it for a week and see how you feel.

What have you got to lose? If it doesn’t change anything, you can always go back to grumbling and muttering.

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Look around.

What do you see?

Almost everything you see is a solution to a problem.

Your clothes, devices, home, transportation, and much more are solutions to problems.

You might think and, to some extent, falsely believe that all the big problems are solved.

True, but also not true.

You see. The problems were solved with the ideas and technology available at that time.

And some were solved a very long time ago.

So now all you have is opportunities.

The million, if not billion, dollar question you should ask yourself is, if I had to solve this problem today, how would I do it?

Make it a game.

Identify a few items in your life that you use frequently and try to develop ideas on improving or rebuilding them.

Research new materials and manufacturing techniques and see what you can find.

Business and work is all about solving problems. Businesses are often created because an individual solves a problem for themselves, and others say they would pay for the same solution.

So, get in the habit of looking at things not only in their current form but also from a perspective of how a problem was solved and how it could be improved. Who knows what problems you might solve with the great ideas you’ll come up with?

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Congratulations!

You’ve made it to the top of the food chain.

You’ve out-evolved every other animal.

So, how does it feel to be on top?

What are you going to do with all your power?

Will you use your power to do wonderful things for yourself and others?

Or will you squander it by cowering at every opportunity and playing small?

You have no idea how powerful you are. And I don’t mean in the sense of raw brute strength. Even though, many people do underestimate their physical limits, even when it comes to pure strength.

You have the power to build, create, heal, invent, and live your life every day, tapping into your unlimited reservoir of power if you choose to.

Or you can trudge through life as though you’re powerless, which can also be true if you believe it to be. But to believe you’re powerless, you really have to put your head down, turn a blind eye, and ignore all that’s been built and accomplished by others who were and are just like you.

Ultimately, the choice is yours. You can refuse to accept that you are indeed powerful or embrace your power and live magnificently. Whatever you choose will be the truth.

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Are you ever amazed by what you can do?

Just think for a moment about everything you’re capable of doing.

I’ll help you out a little, just in case you’re struggling.

You can use your imagination to create an entirely new universe filled with characters and scenes that have never existed, and you can do this all inside your mind, no matter where you are. Science hasn’t yet proven that animals are capable of doing the same.

With enough resources, you can travel almost anywhere in the world. And if you choose to, you can get there by sitting in a metal tube that hurtles your body through time at over 500mph.

With the press of a button, you can use a device to speak to or even see another human being almost anywhere in the world.

Do you consider any of these things I’ve listed to be amazing?

Or do you take them for granted?

Young children make great role models and mentors for learning to live in awe because they haven’t yet transitioned from seeing the world as miraculous to becoming mundane.

 I’m not suggesting that you spend your days walking around with your mouth open in awe at every experience, although that would make for an interesting sight.

I am suggesting that you pause on occasion to appreciate all the amazing things you can do, both inside your mind and in the world around you. And live a little in awe. Your inner child will thank you for it.

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When was the last time you just sat still?

No books, computers, phones, TV, or anyone else around you. Just you sitting still, alone with your thoughts, allowing your mind to digest, format, and process everything around you.

Skipping from one input source or task to another doesn’t give your brain time to absorb all the information it’s exposed to, and even more important, it doesn’t get any rest.

And it doesn’t allow you to think and integrate ideas.

Thinking is one of the most essential gifts humans have, yet it is often underutilized.

Decisions are made on the fly, between events and tasks, because there’s always the next thing to move on to.

But it doesn’t always have to be like that.

You can create space for yourself to sit and think.  

It doesn’t have to be hours of sitting. Just a few minutes between activities is enough to provide a brief reset so you can move to the next input feeling refreshed.

Give yourself the permission and the pleasure of learning to sit still.

Your mind will be grateful to you for taking it off the constant-activity treadmill for a few moments of rest.

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