What do you think you deserve?
Why is this an important question?
Because, you’ll act accordingly.
If you don’t feel worthy, or as though you deserve, then you will behave that way. Even though deep down you might think that you deserve certain things or situations in your life, if you don’t act in congruence with those thoughts then in essence, you will sabotage your own self.
The gap between what you think you deserve and what you get is usually filled with fear.
Why fear?
Because in order for you to get what you think you deserve you have to change, and change is scary. In fact, for some it’s so scary that they’d rather stay where they are, longing for what they want, rather than commit to changing.
Are you going to be one of those people?
The kind of person that knows they deserve better or different, but will not change because it’s safer to stay where you’re at and dream rather than do. If you are, then that’s okay, but be prepared to continuously feel unfulfilled.
Be prepared to live with the hollow feeling of knowing that you deserve so much more, but are not willing to leave the safety of who you are in order to get what you want.
On the other hand, if you decide that you are going to pursue what you believe you deserve, then I congratulate you and I should warn you.
Yes, warn you.
It’s not going to be easy. And it’s not guaranteed that you’ll get exactly what you think you deserve.
Now you might be asking, then why go through all the trouble?
Because deep down inside you’ll be and feel more fulfilled knowing that at least you tried. You’ll know that you lived with the courage of pursuing the things that you believed you deserved.
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