I have some news for you.
Well, maybe more of a reminder than news.
Here it is.
You’re going to be wrong.
You’re going to make mistakes.
You’re going to screw up.
At least I hope you do.
Sound a little harsh?
Well, before you jump to a conclusion, hear me out.
I’m not wishing ill upon you.
In fact, it’s quite the opposite.
I sincerely hope that you don’t bubble wrap your life to the point where all you do is routine, mundane and predictable.
I hope that you don’t get to the point in your life where it looks as though you’re living in a padded 8 x8 cell. A point where you’re playing it so safe that you could cruise through life with your eyes closed, because if you are, then you’re missing the point of life.
Don’t get me wrong.
I’m not advocating for you to intentionally make big glaring mistakes and to keep repeating them. What I am saying is don’t fear mistakes or being wrong.
Mistakes and errors in life can be amazing opportunities for growth. They become lessons not only for you, but also teachable moments that you can help others learn from.
The last thing I want to add is that I know there are those that fear being wrong or making mistakes, not because they’re afraid to try, but, because they are concerned about what others might think of them. In fact, I would venture to guess that more people would risk screwing up or making mistakes, if they knew that no one else would find out.
If you’re one of these people, then know that you’re not alone.
Your concern is legitimate.
However, eventually, you’re going to have to make a decision about your life. You have to decide if you’re willing to forgo the things you want to try, and let your dreams and desires wither and die on the vine just because other people might see you be wrong or make mistakes. Or whether you’re going to forge ahead, chalking up every mistake and screw up as scars you collect as you adventure through life.
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