Are you striving for perfection or progress?
If it’s perfection you’re seeking, then there’s a high probability that you’ll consistently be disappointed.
Why?
Because perfection rarely exists. Perfection can also be elusive because it’s a moving target.
The ideas you have or the images you see of a perfect life, with perfect partners and children – all living in a perfect setting is a fictional story.
One of the worst aspects of perfection is that no matter how hard you work towards it, you will always have a perception that there’s better out there and you haven’t achieved it.
Perfection doesn’t even exist in high-tech engineering, where computers are involved, and humans have been removed from the process. Ask any engineer, and they will tell you about tolerances, aka, the number of flaws acceptable when producing a product.
Progress, on the other hand, is a journey. The steps you take can be incremental, or in some cases even exponential, each one leading towards a destination of your choosing.
Progress can be confusing and messy. At times, progress might force you to take a few steps backward just so that you can move forwards again.
When you focus on progress, you pay more attention to the process rather than the outcome. You maintain a constant step-by-step, boring and monotonous at times, march towards your goal.
So, the next time you find yourself thinking about how to be or live a perfect life, think about progress instead. Concentrate on taking nothing more than the next step towards whatever goal or ideal life you’ve imagined. If you continue to take one step at a time, you might soon find yourself living what might be considered a perfect life.
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