If someone wrote a book about you how would they describe you?
If they interviewed your family and friends for the book what would they say about how you treated people? Would they say you were kind, generous, caring, optimistic and uplifting? The kind of person that people would say it was a pleasure to be around.
Or would they write that you were always complaining, gossiping, quick to find fault in others, pessimistic, demeaning? The kind of person that people went out of their way to avoid being around.
The book about you is being written by you on daily basis and every interaction is an opportunity for you decide now, what want you want to be written in the future book about you.